Artemisia wrote:Well, sometimes even for those of us who are very sexual, the attitudes of people about sex can be frustrating. For instance, my view of sex is very gentle, soft and meant to be done slowly to give the greatest amount of connection with my partner, and to kind of intertwine. A lot of our culture treats sex as being very violent. You're suppose to go at it like rabbits and make it sort of like a competition to see how many orgasms and how fast your orgasms come along.
My first thought, though, when you said you were very bendy was. . .I wish I was too.
Yeah, I'm double-jointed in certain places, I have a slightly long, very agile tongue, I'm bendy, I have a busty, curvy figure, and a deep mouth. I can understand why my friend once joked that all of these traits are wasted on someone who isn't going to use them, but... I do
use them (I can fit a whole ice cream cone in my mouth! :D) and it's a little unfair that people have decided the only use for any of these things is sex. I guess that was what I was trying to say? I don't know. I'm confusing myself.
edit: Okay, I just read through that and it sound like I'm saying "you just don't UNDERSTAND me", instead of whatever I actually meant. I'M NOT SAYING YOU DON'T UNDERSTAND, OKAY? D: Please don't take it the wrong way.