POLL: Chrissie

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Should Lisa talk to Chrissie about the other night?

Yes. Chrissie's probably more angry at herself than at Lisa right now, and she could use a supportive friend on campus.
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Not for a while. It's way too soon.
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No. Whether Lisa was right to initiate their encounter or not, it was clearly so emotionally hurtful to Chrissie that any further contact could be triggering or further traumatizing.
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9%
Not sure.
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Other (please specify with a comment).
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POLL: Chrissie

Postby Alice Macher » Thu Mar 29, 2012 10:19 pm

A serious poll this time, sorry.
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Re: POLL: Chrissie

Postby Zanosuke Kurosaki » Thu Mar 29, 2012 10:27 pm

It could do Chrissie some good, but not right now. I would venture a guess that her "wound" over the whole incident is just still too fresh. Lisa's better off leaving it until Chrissie seeks her out (if she ever does), instead of basically forcing what Chrissie would see as a confrontation. I sincerely hope Lisa's gotten just enough perspective from the other day that she decides to show some discretion on this one.
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Re: POLL: Chrissie

Postby Alice Macher » Thu Mar 29, 2012 10:29 pm

Agreed. That's how I voted, too.
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Re: POLL: Chrissie

Postby Mec » Thu Mar 29, 2012 11:38 pm

Lisa should be friendly and wave, maybe say hello, but not talk about last night. Rather, communicate the message: "we can talk later if you feel like it, or not."
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Re: POLL: Chrissie

Postby brasca » Thu Mar 29, 2012 11:56 pm

I might've voted for the first option if they weren't in public. Chrissie might be especially on edge if Lisa reminds her of that night with so many people around. It looks like a warm day and she's the only one wearing a coat so it might be to make her more sexually ambiguous and less approachable.
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Re: POLL: Chrissie

Postby Trefle » Fri Mar 30, 2012 2:48 am

I would say Lisa should; but this is a tricky one.

What is she going to say?
Where is she going to speak with her?

I'm not sure Lisa's going to be all about 'hey, last night was fuuuuuuun. Wanna do it agaaain?'; but WHERE will she have the talk? Will there be people? SNICKERING, judging people? There's a difference between people seeing*cough* 'the tranny' walks, and knowing that 'the tranny haz teh sex omigawdd'.

And yes, Chrissie must have a say in this. If she wants to have the conversation; fine. If not, then fine. If she does not want to see Lisa's face ever again; well, what can be done?
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Re: POLL: Chrissie

Postby Lia S » Fri Mar 30, 2012 4:11 am

A serious poll you say? *looks at Chrissie's coat* Well, does Lisa want to get flashed?

Okay, but seriously, just waving seems like the best idea. If Chrissie wants to talk she can approach Lisa after seeing a wave and a smile.
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Re: POLL: Chrissie

Postby Corneel » Fri Mar 30, 2012 4:29 am

Maybe just say: "I'm sorry things didn't go well last night. If you want to talk about it I can give you my number, if not all the best" or something to that effect?
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Re: POLL: Chrissie

Postby LadyObvious23 » Fri Mar 30, 2012 8:43 pm

I think she should offer her phone number cuz talking in person right now might be too soon.
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Re: POLL: Chrissie

Postby sgtrock » Fri Mar 30, 2012 11:35 pm

My answer is "Yes" but not because Chrissie needs a supportive friend. Lisa screwed up big time by mis-reading Chrissie's state of mind. She really needs to apologize or life in that dorm will be hell.
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Re: POLL: Chrissie

Postby Megami » Fri Mar 30, 2012 11:41 pm

I think if Lisa could leave it at something relatively simple--like, "Hey, I'm sorry about last night, if you want to talk about it another time, you know where to find me." That could be good. Just as an offer to clear the air sometime, as long as it's on Chrissie's terms. But since that's not super-entertaining, I somehow doubt that's how it'd turn out.
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Re: POLL: Chrissie

Postby Alice Macher » Fri Mar 30, 2012 11:42 pm

sgtrock wrote:My answer is "Yes" but not because Chrissie needs a supportive friend. Lisa screwed up big time by mis-reading Chrissie's state of mind. She really needs to apologize or life in that dorm will be hell.


For the record, we don't know which dorm Chrissie lives in. It may not be Lisa's.
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Re: POLL: Chrissie

Postby sgtrock » Sat Mar 31, 2012 6:29 pm

Alice Macher wrote:
sgtrock wrote:My answer is "Yes" but not because Chrissie needs a supportive friend. Lisa screwed up big time by mis-reading Chrissie's state of mind. She really needs to apologize or life in that dorm will be hell.


For the record, we don't know which dorm Chrissie lives in. It may not be Lisa's.


My mistake. I thought I remembered her from the "Get to know your neighbor" gathering.
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Re: POLL: Chrissie

Postby Artemisia » Sat Mar 31, 2012 6:34 pm

I still want to knock Lisa into next week over what happened with Chrissie. . .and her attitudes towards the lesbians out there.
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Re: POLL: Chrissie

Postby Freemage » Tue Apr 03, 2012 2:54 pm

Artemisia wrote:I still want to knock Lisa into next week over what happened with Chrissie. . .and her attitudes towards the lesbians out there.


On the latter bit, I'm not sure if that's her attitude towards "the lesbians out there" or "the lesbians like Leah out there". She may very well be making the mistake of believing that the entirety of LAZ shares Leah's views, which I don't suspect is the case.
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